Towards the beginning of the school year I was a lesbian, and now I’m a guy. Anyway, when I asked her out, Jess said she’d love to get to know me first, and asked me out after a week or so of “talking”. Then, I found out she never even liked me and just didn’t wanna feel bad for saying no, then claimed she was aroace. Someone online, however, said she probably just lied to get out of the relationship because she also never flirted with me but said she would kiss and sleep with boys. She then said she was straight and started dating a guy about a week later.

She asked me to be her English partner for an assignment recently just because I was the only one she knew in our English class. Sometimes she smiles and waves and says we’re friends. Other times, she doesn’t even bother getting to know me, barely talks, and says we’re acquaintances. I also tried to start conversations with her and she just abruptly ends it and doesn’t add anything so the conversation is really one-sided.

My mom thinks she wants to be left alone but then sometimes she acts like she likes me and wants to be my friend. We’re not close enough where I can just ask her “What do you think of me?” she’d probably think that was weird and might lie to not hurt my feelings.