lriv724 to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 3 months agoWhich is worse, getting rejected by your crush or seeing your crush with someone else?message-squaremessage-square46fedilinkarrow-up157arrow-down111
arrow-up146arrow-down1message-squareWhich is worse, getting rejected by your crush or seeing your crush with someone else?lriv724 to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 3 months agomessage-square46fedilink
minus-squareMuffi@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up8arrow-down4·3 months agoCrushes are non-consensual. Getting rejected is definitely the best, because that is the first step to getting over an unhealthy obsession.
minus-squareJackbyDev@programming.devlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·3 months agoI don’t think that’s what most people mean by the term crush. It sounds like you’re describing something closer to stalking.
minus-squareLad@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·3 months agoYeah wtf. It’s totally natural to have a crush, and it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re totally obsessed with them.
Crushes are non-consensual. Getting rejected is definitely the best, because that is the first step to getting over an unhealthy obsession.
I don’t think that’s what most people mean by the term crush. It sounds like you’re describing something closer to stalking.
Yeah wtf. It’s totally natural to have a crush, and it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re totally obsessed with them.