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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • You should really try a medication again. There are ones that don’t affect your appetite as bad, and if you literally cannot hold down a job without some sort of external help, your childhood doctor’s “medz bad” opinion is no longer valid. See someone who specializes in treating ADHD/autism and get their opinion. Finding the right meds can really be a life changer, it will probably take trying a few different ones, but it’s worth it. I would not be able to handle adult life without mine.

    In the meantime, it seems like all the jobs (apart from food) that you’ve struggled with have been customer-facing jobs. My first job was also customer-facing and I hated it. I’m lucky enough to have a college education in a field that lets me work from home, but that isn’t an option for everyone. Have you thought about maybe going into a trade? Construction? Electrician? Carpentry? I’m assuming you don’t have a degree in a specific field since you didn’t mention it, but those jobs tend to have less social interaction (and what social interaction there is is much less consequential if you mess something up)

    Finally, I just want to say, you’re not lazy. You’re obviously trying incredibly hard, because if you were just lazy, you would have given up by now. Having a kid to care for at 24 while also struggling with, frankly, a crippling disability sounds so fucking difficult. Hang in there, man. You’ll figure it out, one way or another, I’m sure of it.




  • Here’s the thing. We actually have NO idea what to look for. Our sample size of “planets that have life” is exactly one, which doesn’t really tell us much. Since we know that an Earth-like planet can support life, it makes sense to start our search there, but there’s no reason to believe that extraterrestrial life might not be completely and utterly different from anything on our little rock.

    That being said, liquid water is extremely conducive to complex chemical reactions, which are probably required for complex life. But you also need chemicals that are both reactive enough to do things, but can be stable enough to not randomly break apart. This is one of the reasons carbon is so good at being alive, it’s reactive enough to bond with a lot of other elements (including itself), but not too reactive to be useful.

    So basically, this isn’t new. It’s just pointing out that a pure “water world” might not be very useful without a bunch of lively chemicals to boot.










  • They don’t have a monopoly. Full stop. Just off the top of my head, we have Epic Games Store, GOG, and Itch.io, which may not be as popular as Steam, but are absolutely viable alternatives if Steam ever goes completely to shit.

    A real monopoly is like how, in my city in the US, there is exactly ONE company you can buy electricity and gas from. It’s a subsidiary of Avangrid, which is a Swedish corporation, not even on the same continent. They’ve been doing incredibly fucky shit with billing customers for years now and they have the mayor in their pocket, so if you want electricity, you have no choice other than to pay up. There are no alternatives unless you have the money to pay up front for a full off-grid solar install.



  • It could just be your DNS, I’ve had problems with Cloudflare’s 1.1.1.1 and Catbox but I think they actually have a list of ISPs and DNS providers that give them issues. I don’t think you can manually specify a DNS server on cellular (without some weird workaround), but if you have issues on other networks you can try changing your DNS and see what happens.