If it’s not causing any issues, don’t worry about it. If it seems to be causing a dependency or increased anxiety around sleeping alone, then maybe it’s not a good idea. There doesn’t seem to be any consensus among psychologists. Some like it, some hate it. So the best you’re going to be able to do is keep track of how it affects you both and change things up if it becomes a problem.
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A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•You’re Not Allowed to Have the Best Sunscreens in the WorldEnglish
222·4 months agoYou’ve posted an article at a paywalled website. It appears to also be paywalled at archive.org. If you don’t want to get downvoted, provide some way to read the article for those of us who don’t subscribe to the atlantic.
I don’t know if these bills would help, but there is a need for something to be done. The daughter of a friend of mine was raped by a Lyft driver a few years ago. Going home from a party, she didn’t want to drive because she had been drinking. She thought Lyft was the safer option. It wasn’t.
One of my favorite games is trying to get the best price on a game I want. My backlog is a few years long at this point, so I don’t need to buy any new games. But if I can find one I want for 90% off or more, I usually buy it anyways.
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Technology@lemmy.world•A receipt printer cured my procrastination [ADHD]English
4·5 months agoGood to know. Also an easy problem to fix. Just use phenol free paper.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What grocery items are always worth the extra $1-$5?English
112·5 months agoHuy Fong Sriracha. Just don’t even bother buying any other bottle of “sriracha” sauce. It’s not worth it. Your disappointment will be immeasurable and your day will be ruined.
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Not The Onion@lemmy.world•NHS nurse ordered to remove ‘antisemitic’ watermelon video call background launches legal actionEnglish
20·5 months agoUkrainian flag - not political. Russian flag - political.
Israeli flag - not political. Palestinian flag - political.
I think that’s the point of the lawsuit. You can’t claim you’re “completely apolitical and non-biased” when you actually support one side of a conflict and punish your employees who support the other side.
A fact that I hadn’t realized. TIL.
I mean, orange was right there…
cygnosis@lemmy.worldto
Patient Gamers@sh.itjust.works•What games did you get down with over the holiday weekend?English
8·6 months agoReally been enjoying Fallout London. Incredible work for a group of modders. The occasional bug doesn’t bother me much. My only complaint is it’s sometimes very hard to get from point A to point B on the map, and no explanation is given for why.
- Decide you want game
- Add it to wish list
- Seam tells you it’s for sale 80% off
- Buy game
- Wait till you feel like playing that genre and no other games you want to play even more are sitting unplayed in your backlog
- Play “unplayed” game
Why is this a problem?
cygnosis@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•A billionaire rises to the occasionEnglish
1·8 months agoIf one of our billionaires decided to dress up like a bat and beat up thugs it would be an improvement. Instead we get a dozen Lex Luthors and no batman.
I think damage reduction would be even more than that. The damage a projectile does to a target is directly related to its kinetic energy which is calculated as e = ½mv². So when you increase mass but reduce velocity you also reduce the damage by the square of the difference in velocity (I think). As long as the damage just relies on the physics of the projectile and not magic, that is.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is something considered impossible when you were a kid but is now known to be completely possible or even inevitable?English
5·11 months agoFor real. Who would have guessed the most realistic prediction from Star Trek was talking directly to the computer. Whereas the least realistic one is that a post-scarcity society would benefit average people.
hmm. I see. By plugging in only one side you’re creating a 120v cattle prod. Yeah, that would be hazardous.
Explain why, please. I’m not an electrician, but as I understand it, when you install an electrical socket the same three wires in the romex cable provide power for both plugs. Effectively each of the holes in the top plug is bonded to the same hole in the bottom plug. So why would connecting them with an external wire cause a problem? Even if two outlets are right next to each other, and one has reversed polarity, you’d just be connecting neutral to neutral and hot to hot. I don’t understand why it’s a fire hazard.
edit: last two sentences are wrong. If one plug has reversed polarity and one doesn’t you’d be connecting two wires from hot to neutral, and that would probably just blow a fuse.
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Cooking @lemmy.world•[QUESTION] For pasta sauces, is it best to use fresh tomatoes or canned?English
1·1 year agoI had a few tomato plants do well in the garden this year. With a pretty good amount of San Marzano, Cherry, and Early Girl tomatoes, juicing and reducing was the only practical way to deal with them. To do it efficiently I like to use a tomato juicer (mine looks something like this). I put the juice in a pot on the stove for an hour or two to reduce it to a sauce. It takes a little time, but if you have a bunch of ripe tomatoes you can make a banger of a sauce. Throw in some Italian herbs, salt, and a few hot pepper flakes and you’ve got my favorite sauce. I’ve been eating that on ravioli for a few weeks now and I think it’s great: sweet (from the cherry tomatoes) and full of flavor.
As far as efficiency goes, it does take some energy if you just evaporate the watery part on the stove. You could also let the water separate out from the tomatoes and just drain it off. That should make the reduction much faster.
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A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•Couple tried to sell baby for a 6-pack of beer and $1,000 at campground, police sayEnglish
2·1 year agoHonestly, I just feel sorry for the little one. Life is unfair enough, but to get such a shitty start? I mean, these very early life experiences can set the tone for your whole life. Hopefully he gets placed with a family who can help him through that.




Our thinking can be so twisted by religion. Imagine someone long ago wants to build a really tall tower. Nobody knows engineering, material science, etc. They just start stacking rocks on top of each other like they do when they made short buildings. Eventually it’s so tall and heavy that it’s no longer stable, one side sinks into the ground, and the whole thing falls over. And what’s their takeaway? Is it about learning from their mistake and trying again? No, it’s “God is punishing your hubris!” Religion just poisons the mind.