• PackagedGoth@lemmy.worldOP
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    22 days ago

    It’s annoying because even after finding someone who is into it, there are always weirdos or people who u feel u can’t trust too much with u being that vulnerable

    • Aggravationstation@feddit.uk
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      ·
      22 days ago

      Yea. I mean I’m a dude so slightly less of a concern for me compared to yourself but still concerning.

      I live in a fairly isolated town so it’s not impossible for me to get to events but a little difficult and expensive. Other events and stuff to spend money on always come up. I did go to a Torture Garden event once, but that was over 10 years ago 😱

      • PackagedGoth@lemmy.worldOP
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        22 days ago

        I live in the Uk and Kink events aren’t really a thing here, at least I haven’t seen any about or advertised etc.

        • Aggravationstation@feddit.uk
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          ·
          22 days ago

          I’m in England, the north specifically. Kink events do happen in the UK but they’re rare and mostly in London or Birmingham.