The Picard Maneuver@startrek.website to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 1 year agoWould this work or just make people upset?startrek.websiteimagemessage-square81fedilinkarrow-up1761arrow-down118
arrow-up1743arrow-down1imageWould this work or just make people upset?startrek.websiteThe Picard Maneuver@startrek.website to People Twitter@sh.itjust.works · 1 year agomessage-square81fedilink
minus-squarexantoxis@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up60arrow-down1·1 year agoInsecure people would game it. Every time you make plans with someone, hit the button. Then get mad if they hit theirs too.
minus-square🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 ℹ️@yiffit.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4arrow-down1·1 year agoYou say that as if I can actually say no to people.
minus-squareCryptidBestiary@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up4·1 year agoNot trying to sound facetious but one of the best things I’ve learned for myself was saying no to people when I needed to.
minus-squareSokathHisEyesOpen@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up14·1 year agoThat’s not insecurity, that’s straight-up dysfunctional.
Insecure people would game it. Every time you make plans with someone, hit the button. Then get mad if they hit theirs too.
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You say that as if I can actually say no to people.
Not trying to sound facetious but one of the best things I’ve learned for myself was saying no to people when I needed to.
Most especially work.
That’s not insecurity, that’s straight-up dysfunctional.