• lightnsfw@reddthat.com
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    1 day ago

    It’s not about being a “trophy”. I just want to be with someone that I’m physically attracted to, and who is physically attracted to me. I don’t think that’s unreasonable. Obviously we need to have compatible personalities/interests beyond that but it is a big factor.

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      14 hours ago

      You choose how big. Once you are mature or old, you realise how little it means

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        7 hours ago

        You don’t choose that. It’s different for everybody.

        That’s like saying people choose whether or not to be gay or bi versus being straight.

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        8 hours ago

        I’ve never been able to force myself to be romantically interested in some one I wasn’t attracted to. I’ve tried. I’m pretty sure I’ve been on the opposite side of that as well and it made for a shitty relationship.