Let's say both the guy and girl make the same amount of money and are both good at and enjoy cooking and cleaning.
Would it be wrong for a guy to want the girl to give equal contribution financially to the relationship if he's also willing and capable of contributing equally to domestic duties?
In this same scenario, would it be wrong for him to expect her to cook and clean if he's expected to handle the financial aspects of the relationship?
Household expenses should be split such that you both have the same amount of money left after the bills are paid.
Housework should be split such that you both have the same amount of leisure time.
Higher earners should not be regarding their lower paid partners as housekeepers, no. Pull your weight at home or GTFO.