Something I’ve always wondered is what kind of women were in the lives of incel men when they were young. Did they have a bad relationship with their mother? Did they lack sisters or other female family members? Or is their family situation irrelevant? Maybe some particular situation in their early years caused them to develop a complex around women?
How old were they, by chance? Most women I know are old enough to have learned that looks are not everything. I'm sure men learn the same as they mature. Of course, there are assholes everywhere, which is why personality is so important.
If you find someone you like and they have a good personality, hold onto them tight. It's worth so much more. Lust fades, love you grow together lasts and lasts.
They were 19 years old IIRC.