Like for me (male) for example, I like being dominant irl. Not as much as being submissive, but still. In porn though, it turns me off massively when men are dominant.

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    I like making out irl (a lot) and porn gets it all wrong. It's way too hard and fast and exaggerated. I guess it makes sense since it's for the cameras. It also explains why men are worse at making out than women (on average).

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      Director: “No, not like that! We need to see your tongues!”

      actors proceed to stick out their tongues and flick together

      Director: “Yes, perfect!”

      Me: … bye.

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        Omg yesssss. The number of guys that have tried to do that with me is embarrassing. Pretty much guaranteed we’re not going any further.