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One of the admins at lemmy.blahaj.zone asked us to purge a community and all of
its users because they thought it was full of child sexual abuse material, aka
CSAM, fka kiddy porn. We assured them that we had checked this comm thoroughly
and we were satisfied that all of the models on it were of age. The admin then
demanded we purge the comm because they mistook it for CSAM, and claimed that
the entire point of the community was to make people think it was CSAM. We
vehemently disagreed that that was in fact the point of the community, but they
decided to defederate from us anyway. That is of course their choice, but we
will not purge our communities or users because someone else makes a mistake of
fact, and then lays the responsibility for their mistake at our feet. If someone
made a community intended to fool people into thinking it was kiddy porn, that
would be a real problem. If someone of age goes online and pretends – not
roleplays, but pretends with intent to deceive – to be a child and makes porn,
that is a real problem. Nobody here is doing that. One of the reasons we run our
instance the way that we do is that we want it to be inclusive. We don’t body
shame, and we believe that all adults have a right to sexual expression. That
means no adult on our instance is too thin, fat, bald, masculine, old, young,
cis, gay, etc., to be sexy, and that includes adults that look younger than some
people think they should. Everyone has a right to lust and to be lusted after.
There’s no way to draw a line that says “you can’t like adult people that look
like X” without crossing a line that we will not cross.
Even though I don’t 100% agree with the defederation, it’s a bit alarming how quick commenters are to chastise their decision. Why risk being federated with a community that will allow or seek “childlike” NSFW content? That’s just asking for trouble, so I can understand why an instance would avoid being associate with that. That’s a huge risk for someone hosting a fairly large instance, especially with the criticism and accusations the LGBTQ+ community has been subject to recently
Exactly this. Right wing propaganda already portrays the LGBTQ+ community as child groomers who are sexualizing minors.
Forget gasoline or lighter fluid: allowing federation with “barely 18!” content would throw a whole propane tank on that fire.
Right wing propaganda also portrays Sex Ed as grooming, defends child marriage, and regularly threatens anyone they don’t like. Up to and including attempting a coup.
You don’t negotiate with terrorists. They won’t stop because of it, they just get bolder.
That’s just dumb.
Imagine that they want children to be ignorant of themselves more (imo it seems by sex ed, they are learning the concept of consent and so on, please correct me or add more context down below cause I can’t fully express this in words), so that people (the adults) can take advantage of that fact (for their disgusting opportunities).
If they have been dumb like this for the past decades, they are enabling/encouraging p3do behavior more among their ranks, then (i.e., disgusting “child abuse rings” on news from time to time).
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That’s an unfortunate exaggeration right? Not wanting to see or deal with communities who feel it’s sexually enticing to look at “childlike” and “barely 18” porn is clearly different from wanting gay, trans and queer people to stop existing.
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No, I am not. Wth?
barely 18 is fine with homophobes as long as it’s a blond white woman
Oh no! Barely 18? As in an adult? Adults in porn?! Call the fucking cops. Not like there is a 1000 porn studios with 18 in their name.
And if you’re taking action because of how right wing propaganda might misinterpret it to paint you in a bad light, that’s just pathetic.
I mean consenting adults having sex? WHAT WERE YOU THINKING
Terrible, just terrible, this must be child porn /s
I would say, It does says a lot about the person throwing the accusations tho
This commenter is weirdly passionate about what kinds of porn Blahaj federates with.
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