• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    Only fans is like shopping locally to support small business. If you can afford to, it’s better than the big box* stores.

    *Yes, I know you’re into that.

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      13 hours ago

      Tbh, I don’t even know if I want to support my local OF entrepreneurs. The ones I’ve seen in my area on dating apps give me the Instagram narcissist ick.

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    20 hours ago

    I have a friend who in pretty into onlyfans. He treats it as a relationship, has talks about his day with models, dumps life stuff… I dont think its healthy but its a substitute for a SO for him… So id say lonely people do…

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      13 hours ago

      Thats it right there. Some guys go to strip clubs and treat it like a relationship. A woman once told me she worked in a club and when one of the regulars passed away, a bunch of them went to his funeral.

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      17 hours ago

      Exactly.

      It’s not that I’m indifferent to OF; the idea of getting in such a relationship actively creeps me out. And I’m already pretty messed up.

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        14 hours ago

        a friend of mine has an OF page and while she is probably more genuine than most other models as she has a small select following, even she says she has to “perform and fake it” to a good degree. there is a reason you are paying and not just chatting for free.

  • ilillilillilillililli@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    The only legit reason to pay for OF is if you happen to find that a hot girl from your graduating class has a profile. You then save that shit to your NAS and unsubscribe.

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      18 hours ago

      As the guy who buys his own wine and isn’t that picky, I’d much rather open a $5 bottle than one ten times that price. Especially if it’s a sweet red; then I can get an order of magnitude more drink than the snob who likes sour grapes.

      (And, honestly, $50 is way too much for a common bottle of wine. Even $30 is nearly in the realm of conspicuous consumption.)

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      19 hours ago

      It’s not $5. There’s a tap in all our pockets, pipelessly connected to the Heidelberg Tun of free wine that comes in all colours, types, and flavors.

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        18 hours ago

        It’s not $5. There’s a tap in all our pockets, pipelessly connected to the Heidelberg Tun of free wine that comes in all colours, types, and flavors.

        …but not that rare vintage from the Chateau you visited on your honeymoon. That one costs extra…

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    18 hours ago

    People who like a specific pornstar and want them to keep making porn? People who like typically a lot more ethical porn? People after a specific niche fetish?

    People who pay sex workers well is a really weird group to take a shot at imo

    Oh goddamnit i took the meme seriously again

  • shalafi@lemmy.world
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    16 hours ago

    I subbed for a couple of months because the model blew my hair back, wanted to see more pics and see what here videos were like. Only wrote her once to say I appreciated the hard work and creativity she put in on makeup, promotion and costumes. Because of all that, I figured she deserved a few bucks.

    Anyway, got bored with it. If I had the sort of money where $10/mo. wasn’t even noticeable, I’d probably have just let it ride.

  • MidsizedSedan@lemmy.world
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    13 hours ago

    Even though most porn is free, there is still that one artist that only posts teasers to the free sites. I haven’t seen her full videos leaked yet, but I REALLY want to see the full video…

    I mean. Porn? What is that??? Some type of chess piece?