I recently discovered I’m polyamorous so my girlfriend is ok with this. I met this girl online I’ll call her “Elizabeth” through a mutual friend and we’ve been talking. (Not the fortune teller scammer)

Anyway, Elizabeth is a trans girl and she’s pansexual and we want to learn more about each other. She’s already flirty and I plan to video call her so I know she is who she says she is. I’ve seen her face and she’s cute.

Also, she plans, after the video call, to meet up with me IRL so we can make sure we like each other. My plan is that since my dad is transphobic, I have to say she’s a boy when I meet up with her (but she uses any pronouns anyway), and that my friend called Elizabeth one day at school and they were already friends and she told everyone to say hi so I said hi and got to talk to Elizabeth.

My friends don’t come over much so Dad can’t verify that. The only problem? We can definitely go to like an ice cream place but she can’t come to my house because of my dad and since he sees her as just a dude, she can’t come to my house.

Besides, we’re too young to have sex since we’re only 15 (me) and almost 16 (Elizabeth) but she’s like… really freaky, if you know what I mean but she still doesn’t wanna weird me out.

I mean, I guess that’s expected from a teen with all our hormones and attraction and stuff but still. IDK what to do. There’s gonna be parents there though so I still wanna remain safe and all.