What should I do? On my male days, I get misgendered intentionally and called “my girl/daughter” by my transphobic dad who says “people think boys can be girls and I hate it!!”
He also keeps calling my male friend a “she” when he doesn’t even look like a girl, he looks pretty gender-neutral/masc and just may look feminine to him because he’s pre-T (he’s only 16).
I thought of one thing, and last time he said I couldn’t hang out with him because he was trans but didn’t have a face to match up with the name or me just saying “a friend” so he may let me hang out with him, thinking he’s “a girl” and just a tomboy so I can finally sleep over.


that sux brooo i hate transphobessss ;-;
once you turn 18 though, you can take all the T you want.
if it were me, it may not be the best advice, but go along with him being a girl maybe in front of ur *i mean dad but still try to avoid using pronouns unless you have to. then, thinking you’re hanging out with a cis tomboy, he’ll allow u to hang out with him and do whatever u want!!!
u two can then become manly men at 18+!!!