I’m guessing you’re at your most effective when people speak honestly and directly and you struggle when they don’t?
Why should others risk your influence by meeting you where you are your strongest and maybe they aren’t? Why would they give a random person direct access to their thoughts and feelings, to rummage through and manipulate, especially when there’s a vibe of judgement, coercion or authoritarianism from the one asking, like you seem to have?
I’m guessing you’re at your most effective when people speak honestly and directly and you struggle when they don’t?
Why should others risk your influence by meeting you where you are your strongest and maybe they aren’t? Why would they give a random person direct access to their thoughts and feelings, to rummage through and manipulate, especially when there’s a vibe of judgement, coercion or authoritarianism from the one asking, like you seem to have?
Whatever, slippery coward.