• XIIIesq@lemmy.world
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    9 months ago

    You’re not debating in good faith.

    78 children died on the roads in the UK last year. Presumably most of them were supervised at the time.

    I’m making the argument that if safety is your only priority that you would never allow a child anywhere near a road, nor would you ever let them travel in a vehicle on the roads. Please understand that I’m not talking about supervision, I’m making the argument that you can guarantee that your child will not die in a road traffic accident if you refuse to ever let them leave the house.

    There is a balance to make between safety and freedom that you are being willfully ignorant of.

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      9 months ago

      You’re not debating in good faith.

      You right now are claiming the stance that responsible pet ownership or responsible parenthood or in this case not allowing a cat or a small child to roam freely without supervision means you shouldn’t allow them to do anything. And that’s not what it is about.

      You don’t allow either of them to freely roam without supervision because you’re unnecessarily putting them in danger of injury, disease or death.

      If you want to get a cat, a safer way to satiate their curiosity and need of activity would be to spend time with them, give them activities and walk them outside. Not leaving them for their own and hope they’ll be fine. That’d be considered neglectful here.

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        9 months ago

        You’re still not understanding or being willfully ignorant of the point I’m making.

        If your kid never leaves the house then they will not die in a road traffic accident. I can’t put it more simply than that.

        I’m not talking about constant supervision.

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          9 months ago

          You are correct in that I don’t understand the point you’re trying to make. This is what I originally said about kids

          I mean getting a cat is selfish to begin with since you are getting yourself a pet after all, but as a pet owner you’re supposed to take as good care of them as possible. It’s like with kids. Once you’ve made the decision to get one you’re responsible for it and it would be silly to expect a small child to make the decisions. You’re the one who is responsible for their well-being.

          You are responsible for their well being. You wouldn’t let a small child roam freely outside without supervision. That would be irresponsible. It’s the same with a cat.

          If your kid never leaves the house then they will not die in a road traffic accident. I can’t put it more simply than that.

          I have no idea what this has to do with the discussion or the point about kids. I wasn’t talking about never leaving the house. I talked about roaming around freely without supervision.