I'm becoming more aware of the rest of my own body and its sensations, and I'd like to hear perspectives from the community: where when and how do you like to be touched? For simplicity let's say only your partner's hands.

For genital contact, I like when my partner grabs my penis at the base and squeezes hard. Something about the way the blood surges under their grip.

For other contact, it depends on gender. With men, I like the way a guy can squeeze my shoulders/arms. I think it's a strength thing, with both our muscles flexing together. With women, it's 100% when they grab the hair on the back of my head while I'm going down on them. It's a very intimate moment of course, and I like how if I hit a spot just right with my tongue or nose that I immediately get feedback from her through her grip.

  • puddle@yiffit.netEnglish
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    1 year ago

    i like a lot of the usual things so i’ll skip those. One of the ones that people are usually confused about or think is a joke: the bridge of my nose. Like right where it meets the forehead. Something about pressure or being held there just feels really good and safe. It’s like i can turn my mind off a bit and just enjoy whatever other sensations are going on.

    On the flip side i don’t enjoy nipple stuff at all. i want to get it but it just doesn’t feel interesting. It’s kinda fun if someone wants to torment me though, it’s a bit like being tickled?

    • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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      1 year ago

      Interesting. Do you wear glasses? If yes, I wonder if it’s somehow related.

      I feel you on the nipple stuff. Do you identify as male? I think our nipples just don’t respond the same way.

      • puddle@yiffit.netEnglish
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        1 year ago

        i do yeah, i didn’t get them until i was older though. Just figured everyone saw like that… Eventually i couldn’t read what was on the board in my uni classes. Unsure if it developed before or after that 🤔

        Could be part of it but i think it’s more that there’s a lot of nerves near the eyes and it does something for me on a kink level at times.

        And nope, no gender for the most part. i’ve had estrogen dominant and testosterone dominant parts of my life, tried progesterone for a while. Still just not into it. Before all that they were sensitive it hurt a bit but now it’s not nearly as bad.