• Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    Pretty much nails it on the head. It feels dystopian, and social media makes it so much worse. How is everyone I know buying houses and going on vacations and going out all the time, when my yearly raises haven’t kept up with inflation for 8 years now?

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      7 months ago

      I believe it’s related to how credit card debt is at the highest level it’s ever been

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      It is dystopian. And in some ways it’s a return to feudalism. For a brief time — since the Industrial Revolution — people found ways to build wealth without acquiring a ton of land. Now in the past few decades we’re seeing people go back, heavily, into land as an investment. This trend started before Airbnb existed but now it’s accelerating like crazy.

      Everyone knows that housing is scarce and that construction has slowed down dramatically. So everyone who can afford to is buying up all the housing because they know it’ll only skyrocket in value over time. This is bad not only because it makes housing unaffordable but because it locks up so much capital in a non-productive form.

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      7 months ago

      The capacity to buy doesn’t mean you can afford it.

      The economy is built on debt and inflated valuations.

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      How is everyone I know buying houses and going on vacations and going out all the time,

      Two things. First, it’s not the dystopian nightmare you think it is. As you note, social media is making it worse.

      Second is a lot of people live beyond their means, or are getting help from family to buy these things.

      when my yearly raises haven’t kept up with inflation for 8 years now?

      Should have started looking for a job 5 years ago. If you did and couldn’t find anything, that explains why they feel comfortable not giving you an actual raise. If you haven’t, best time to start is right now.

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        7 months ago

        I’ve changed companies 4 times in those 8 years. I’ve changed industries twice. Food -> banking -> medicine. Trust me, my lack of funds is not from a lack of motivation and effort

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          Sorry I didn’t mean to sound like I was imply you were lazy. I’m really speaking from the position of someone who had to convince themselves changing gears was necessary before doing so. And absolutely glad I did.

          That being said, one of the easier things to negotiate when leaving a job for another is getting a raise at the new company. “I like my current job and only want to leave for the right opportunity. It’s hard to justify that if I’m not seeing a significant pay bump.” That’s where I’ve seen some of my biggest pay bumps.