I find it toxic when people go on and on about minor problems that are in no way relevant to the people in the conversation and there is no way they can help.

All it is doing is bringing unneeded negativity into an environment. That’s toxic.

You want help? Yine I can help how? You want to ruin my free time when I’m trying to de-stress by going on about people and things that have nothing to do with me and I can’t help? Go away.