• Burn_The_Right@lemmy.world
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    6 months ago

    Actually sounds kimda hot to me. Just because you aren’t attracted to you doesn’t mean I won’t be. I guess the trick is finding someone you are also attracted to in return.

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      6 months ago

      “much uglier, balding, short”

      “Sounds kinda hot”

      Why can’t people like you live near me!? lmao

      I should say that while I’m not exactly “picky” as in passing over people for superficial things, I also don’t want “just anyone.” So like sure, I could probably pick up a real mess of a person with all sorts of drama, but then I’d be with a mess of a person with all sorts of drama lol

      Edit: Should have said I’m not calling you a mess of a person, just speaking generally lol

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        6 months ago

        Tbf, you also said “hairy,” which is a huge turn-on for some ladies. My SO is obsessed with hairy. I didn’t know that was a thing until her.

        Get confident. That’s what sold my girl on me. I walk, talk and otherwise behave confidently, even when I have no fu#$ing clue.

        Bonus points: my SO also points out when other girls check me out. I’m oblivious to that stuff, so that’s a nice boost.

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          6 months ago

          The confidence thing helps some people, but I don’t think I have much success with that. I come off as very insecure on lemmy because I’m anonymous and can be open and honest about how I see myself, but when I’m out and about I’m walking with my chest high and when communicating I’m generally charming, always aiming to make someone laugh.

          For someone who hates a lot about myself, you wouldn’t know it at all if you met me in person lol