• RyanGosling [none/use name]@hexbear.netOP
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    4 months ago

    I did not have sexual intentions with that child billdawg

    I (42 year old man) messaged a minor and our mutual conversations leaned towards inappropriate

    I made a dumb mistake

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      4 months ago

      Speaking as a dude around his age, there is no way he can be flirting with minors less than half his age and not be a completely arrested development man child. I can have conversations with people that age but there’s a distinct “this person is on a different wavelength than me, anything deeper than polite chatter would be awkward and annoying” feel to it. As I like to say, some girls are mature for their age, but if a fully grown, let alone middle aged, adult male wants to have a relationship with a girl like that, he’s not mature for his age.

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        Even if this was one of the cases where teenagers like being annoying or try to prove they’re “mature” by trying to impress or flirt with adults, normal people would just say fuck off. This grown ass man kept humoring the kid and interacting with her