• ameancow@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    Okay setting aside your clearly toxic and unkind attitude that is betraying what this is really about, some personal issue that is making you seeth, why is the word “disappointment” triggering YOU so hard?

    I would be disappointed if my date comes home with me and takes off their shirt and they have a tattoo of Sonic the Hedgehog on their chest. Because I don’t want to look at Sonic when we’re together, does that make a lick of fucking sense? Do you understand that people have consensual relationships and preferences for their partners?

    • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      5 months ago

      Yeah I’m toxic, you’re the one who flipped out at me for asking the commenter a question 😂

      He didn’t said that if someone he dated had ripple piercings, he said he was “disappointed so many girls” are choosing to get them. Don’t try and reframe what he said. You don’t have to come up with elaborate allegories we can talk about what he said right there.

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        5 months ago

        I quizzed you why you thought a normal, common expression of aesthetic taste became a sexual entitlement issue to you immediately, it was weird, it remains weird, you are weird, every comment makes you seem weirder about it, and I don’t think this is a healthy place for you to be engaging and tripling down on. I’m blocking you for your good as much as mine.

        • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          5 months ago

          Lol yeah okay have fun dude you’re still mischaracterizing what I said. I never said anything about him having preferences. 🙄

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            5 months ago

            yeah, that’s your entire thing. Ripping into him for having preferences. How dare he, and how dare he have an emotional reaction to his preferences. The fact he isn’t dead inside proves he isn’t married to you. ;-)

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              5 months ago

              You’re just petulantly refusing to actually respond to what I have said at this point. I don’t care about his preferences.

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                    5 months ago

                    and yet, there you go again, bitching about his preferences.

                    I get it. English is a weird, difficult language, and it isn’t your first. You’re probably from northern Europe, I presume? Take it from absolutely everyone here telling you you misunderstood that you misunderstood. It’s a learning experience. Being wrong isn’t the end of the world for you. Grow from it.