Mines pretty tame, but my exs ex husband was obsessed with her and would not leave her alone

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    After finding out I liked this girl but got rejected, a guy I knew revealed he also had feelings for her, but he “didn’t care anymore.” Yet, every conversation we had he would bring her up, talk abut hot she was and her tight clothes, and in the next sentence get very angry about her being a dick to him, then back to talking about her body.

    He’s also this weird libertarian. Constantly talks about Joe Rogan and other dorks. He complains about “liberal third wave feminist bitches” on our campus who “only care about onlyfans and making men feel bad” (I have never once encountered a girl like this on campus lol). He also says he lies about his political beliefs with girls because “these college liberals only care about marxism.” None of that ever works - when he does succeed in getting dates, it’s because they don’t remotely talk about politics, and he would get ghosted because he’s clingy, hyper defensive, insulting, and/or politically repulsive (usually he somehow reveals his anti abortion stance despite wanting casual sex and hating sluts, but only when they don’t sleep with him). He’a not a bad looking guy, but he gets very angry when girls ghost him or outright reject him. Despite this, he never reflects on anything unless I explicitly point it out, and even then the next time we talk, he complains about the same problems with no indication he tried to be normal lol

    Unrelated person, and This part is straight up sexual assault and not just “creeping.” I also heard from a few veteran employees at the school that there were a couple of rape cases in their department. They didn’t expel the guy and covered everything up and settled out of court. I don’t believe he had any connections, but he was a serial rapist wanted in several states, so I guess that’s that bad of PR was why they covered it up. But still, he wasn’t expelled.

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        I absolutely hated him lol. The thing I hated the most is that he was one of the few guys who I was able to talk about anything with, but I knew it wouldn’t last because he was stubborn and I didn’t want to spend our relationship being his therapist and correcting him. People can be reeducated, but I’m trying to form relationships, not fix people lol. I ghosted him after the semester lol