Give me your worst, Lemmy! Absolutely nothing is off limits. Let’s get fucking weird!
I post this here because /c/iama doesn’t seem to be a thing…
Don’t hold back you jerks!
EDIT: It’s just about 05:00 for me. Night night! I’ll answer any other questions. In a few hours!
That’s a great question!
Transitioning left me with a tiny “dating” pool. Most of my “dates” were with chasers on Grindr or Taimi.
Except for the 2 sexual assaults, I’ve been fine with serving my purpose. After the 2nd rape, though, I gave up on casual encounters and dating in general. I haven’t had an actual relationship with anyone in about 7 years.
I will likely never meet someone who likes me for me. It took me YEARS to accept this difficult truth. It contributes to my depressive episodes all of the time.
I’d rate myself as a 6/10 on a good day. It’s just really hard to find guys that are interested in me beyond the fetish that they see. It’s easier to give up.
Holy shit, 2 rapes…
So sorry that you had to go through this. And I wish you all the best for the future
Can I ask, does this include T4T too for you?
I don’t really identify with a sexual or romantic preference. 99% of the time these days, I like dude
Jesus christ. Nobody should go through that. I’m so sorry.
Honest question do you view someone fetishizing you and liking you for you as mutually exclusive? Like I’m pro basketball level tall, and if someone fetishized that I think I’d just view that as me not having to work as hard to turn them on.