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  • Genuine question, what do you think it means to be shunned? Everyone in this thread is responding to you. We’re talking to you. We’re reading your opinions and sharing our own in response. This direct interaction with you is the opposite of being shunned.

    Do you maybe mean people disagree with you and are sharing their disagreements in comments and votes? Because this confuses me too. How isn’t this exactly what you want? Some people agree with you and others don’t. We’re all allowed to talk about our opinions too. No one is turning you away.

    I feel like I’m the only one with open eyes and ears here.

    If you are then you must recognize how the things you’re saying don’t make sense right now. You can’t both be shunned and continue to be in communication with those that shun you.

    I only shun if people say stupid things. Why can’t it be the same from everyone.

    I see this and I think “this is a person who would ‘shun’ me if I said something they deem stupid. They think my opinions are stupid. Therefore I expect to be shunned.” I’m very confused by this. If I were to say your opinions are stupid, that gives me the right to shun you, as you suggest, so I don’t think you can complain if you believe we’re doing exactly what you’re asking, no?

    However, we aren’t shunning you. We are communicating. You are suggesting that you have the right to “shun” us as soon as you see something stupid. That seems wholely hypocritical and unfair. If fairness is what you’re after, you must realize this.

    I don’t want to fight either, and I prefer civil, rational discussions. So please say what you really mean here. Otherwise you’re literally asking that we ‘shun’ you as per your own comment. The things you say don’t make logical sense (stupid) and we should shun stupid. I don’t think that’s very fair, but those are the rules you’re suggesting here.



  • Something I’ve always wanted in Starbound is something like a captains log. Yes I can take notes elsewhere, but it would be really nice if there was UI to organize my experiences and history as I bop around the universe. The bookmarking method isn’t all that helpful.

    I used to play a lot of Starbound, but this is actually what’s holding me back. I want a little more roleplaying as a space explorer and I’d love collecting planet data in a better UI.


  • I don’t think this looks very good, but if we want a fighting chance, we can definitely do two things:

    1. We need to make using other instances of Lemmy and kbin extremely easy. Seamless. Two taps on your phone simple. Sign up with Google. All that jazz. Then the most basic user will have an easier time choosing a non-Threads instance.

    2. We need to, ironically I guess, advertise our LACK of advertisements. No matter how they do it, I’d bet anything Treads will integrate ads somehow, so this is a way we can quickly stand out.


    On another note, users will want to go where the content lives. Of course, that makes this much more difficult. We all know Threads will be big, almost immediately. So, should we defederate with Threads like many of us are planning? This will keep us “safe” but we’ll lose all the new content. Or should we instead remain federated to keep seeing the content? Of course this doesn’t stop Threads from defederating from us themselves, so I truly don’t know the answer.


    No matter what, I think we need to stand out to average social media users in a big way. I think my two points above are just a start, though. We need to offer more.

    I don’t have high hopes, but I’m planning to fight like hell for our little paradise in any way I can.


  • I think a lot of “both siders” haven’t had their lives - threatened by the government.

    It’s easy to understand if the most important thing anyone has ever tried to take from us is, say, a gun, but once they start talking about taking our homes, our bodies, our jobs, our futures, our families, or maybe our lives, then we get a very clear picture. This is really really big for some people and it’s very obvious which side is threatening their lives, not just their things.

    All we can do is share our experiences with others and hope they can try to put themselves is our shoes. It’s clear to me which of these sides wants me barefoot and pregnant at home in the kitchen, too poor to leave my husband. Laws are starting to be passed that are driving us in that direction. Sure, you could say “they aren’t going to go that far”, but they sure are talking about it. And I don’t know about you, but if someone in government stands on a stage and talks about harming me and then a crowd cheers for them, I feel like it’s pretty damn real.

    I just ask that you try to understand that it’s so much more dire for some folks, and “both sides” is no longer a good position to take.



  • Hmm this is also a good point. I’ve been explaining to redditors that Lemmy is not that complicated and only takes a couple minutes to get started. But reading this, now I’m hoping Lemmy can find the balance between number of active users and quality of content. I’m wondering if my spreading the word on reddit was a bad idea.

    Maybe the “work” required to make the jump to Lemmy will be enough to keep lower quality content (for whatever reason) at bay for a bit longer, though. Of course, it won’t last forever. All we can do is make our communities good spaces from the get-go and try to maintain them carefully as we grow.


  • So I’m not sure if I’m the best person to be giving their opinions as I’ve used only OP phones for the last 3 years, so the things I like might be standard android these days. Also, rereading my comment I sound like an OP fangirl, so feel free to disregard my comments.

    I love their aesthetic. I like the “bubbly” feel to the UI, the font, color choices, etc. I think they’re very snazzy. I also love the customization features, specifically the launcher editing UI (it’s stupid intuitive), the AOD options, they have their own creepy animoji thing that I kind of love, the transition animations are smooth, and it’s cohesion in general is excellent.

    It all feels like it belongs together. I have a hard time determining where “standard android” and OxygenOS begin/end. It just feels nice to use and I love leaving my phone faceup just to look at it. It’s hard to identify exactly what I love because I haven’t been keeping a list or anything, but just this morning I was moving some apps around and between folders and it just did exactly what I wanted in a way my old phones definitely wouldn’t. Small, but really exciting in the moment.

    Of course, these are all very little things that might not be enough for other folks, but the little things are usually what delight me most. I’m also not a bank, so this phone is absolutely the most expensive thing I own and I try to appreciate it when I can.

    I will say, there are things that OP will need to change. For me, things like icon customization and notification dismissal direction need updated. But these are extremely low on my list, so I don’t mind it as it is.

    I want to add that the hardware on this device alone is worth it to me. It’s a beast and the battery is fabulous.

    Anyway, I’ll stop gushing haha. I didn’t realize how much I like it until now. I know these devices aren’t for everyone so this is my own opinion. I’m also writing this on my commute so I feel like it isn’t coming across as clearly as I’d like. I hope that helped a bit though.


  • So short answer, I really love them but I’m keeping a cautious eye on their choices.

    Full disclosure, this is coming from my OP11, so I’m a little bit biased, but this is absolutely the best phone I’ve ever had. And mind you, my previous phone was the OP7Pro which is an incredible device that STILL works like new after 3 years. So personally, they’ve been good to me.

    However, I am keeping a close eye on their OS and software decisions. I was a little hesitant about this phone at first. The Android 11 OxygenOS was perfect on my OP7Pro. I upgraded to 12 (their merger with ColorOS if I’m not mistaken) and it was just a mess. For the first time since buying it, my OP7Pro had random bugs and stuttering. I immediately reverted to Android 11 and it was back to perfect. Unfortunately, the OP7Pro will no longer receive updates, so if I wanted to try the newest OxygenOS, I needed to upgrade.

    OP11 starts with OxygenOS 13 and is slated to receive 5 years of updates, which is awesome for longevity. Some of the decisions they made after the terrible OxygenOS 12 (many changes to the OS, releasing the OP11 as the only flagship without a Pro later in the year, etc.) gave me hope that they recognized their mistakes and were willing to fix them. I decided to give them another shot and got the OP11 in April.

    The software is still missing a few (minor) things I liked from OxygenOS 11, but Android 13 makes up for it with some interesting features. And this might be an unpopular opinion, but I actually like what they’re doing with the OxygenOS 13 skin. It’s hard to describe since there are a lot of small things I probably noticed unconsciously, but I haven’t had any bugs and it’s been a dream with this device. I do feel like they’re listening to their customers again, and trying to get back on our good sides.

    In the past I’ve been burnt by Samsung and LG, but OnePlus hasn’t ever let me down (except that atrocious OxygenOS 12, but again, I skipped it). So long as they keep making the effort to listen to their customers and keep pushing the changes/additions we want to see, I’ll keep buying their devices and running their OS. Of course if I see a repeat of 12 with OxygenOS 14, I honestly might bail. 12 was so bad I’m never doing that again.

    I realize this is kind of rambly, so please let me know if you want me to clarify anything.