• 7 Posts
  • 371 Comments
Joined 2 years ago
cake
Cake day: December 3rd, 2024

help-circle







  • Keep in mind that this only counts the first occurrence. Women in abusive relationships will only count as 1 instance despite experiencing violence and/or sexual assault regularly over a long period of time. This is also likely an underestimate, as not everyone wants to admit that they were the victim of violence, and some of us get gaslit by others so hard that we no longer even believe we’re a victim at all—that it was somehow our fault.


  • Honestly, it depends on the day, my outfit, and where I’m going. Most of the time I keep a small-medium size crossbody purse on me, but if I wanna dress up, I’ll get a small, cute little purse. I need to get a large purse at some point bc I find it a bit too often that I need the extra room, especially if I’m going out for a long time and need to bring water.


  • It can be when done correctly, and when done between people whose body shapes are compatible. But it really depends on the people involved. Good scissoring doesn’t look like what they do in porn. You need lubricant, to find the right angle, and it (most frequently) does not lead to orgasm on its own. It’s kind of like a much more intimate form of grinding in that regard. Technically it’s possibly to orgasm from grinding alone, but just like scissoring and tribbing, that’s usually not the goal. It’s highly intimate and fun with the right expectations. And it’s only fun when both people are into it.




  • I use an Ion Magnesium Flat Iron 1", and it’s great for me! The temperature control is really nice, and it holds heat well because it’s a ceramic tourmaline iron with magnesium for even heat distribution. I have very fine hair, and it does its job well! I use it for putting waves in my hair, not straightening, but I’m sure it would be great for straightening! The buttons are inside the iron, so you won’t accidentally turn it on/off or change the temperature, but easily accessible when you need to. It also feels great in my hand. I don’t really have any gripes with it, tbh. It’s treated me well for the (relatively few) times I’ve used it




  • Okay so, perhaps a controversial opinion, but I don’t actually like pockets on a lot of my clothes. Lounge clothes? Absolutely. Scrubs? Can’t live without them. Clothes I wanna actually wear out? I’d rather use my purse. I don’t personally like the look that pockets provide on some clothes, and I certainly don’t like the way pockets look when there’s something in them. I have dresses with pockets, and I could never use the pockets because I feel that they’d look awful.

    But, I think there should be more options out there for other women do do want pockets. It’s especially heinous on jeans, because those should have good pockets.





  • At the high school I went to, first period started at 7:20AM, and school ended at 2:20PM. Though I was in a zero hour choir class, so that started at 6:10AM. I’ve seen really strange start times, though. I heard of a school in the US that started at 7:14AM for whatever fucking reason. Oh, and then there were Wednesdays which were late start days, though I think they moved those to Mondays now, based on the traffic by the schools at that time of day? Can’t remember what time that started, but I’m pretty sure it was like just after 10AM, same 2:20PM end time. None of it makes sense.