I agree that me asking for her discord and playing video games with her online could be considered a date to alot of people.
But my reason for asking her discord and playing video games with her online is just so I can have a new friend. I do not want to date her and have her move in with me. Because I like being myself and having no responsibilities in life.
I don’t think the most men would enjoy cuckqueaning because I don’t think most men would enjoy humiliating their wife by telling her that the other woman that he is having sex with is younger and more attractive than her.
But hot husbanding however is a kink that I think most men would enjoy doing with their wife. Because in hot husbanding the husband is allowed to have sex with other women while his wife watches him but with no humiliation being involved at all.