Patriarch 🍆😈

Virtual role playing games as cyber sex is a big hobby for me and I do that in a community chatroom where you can find people based on common interests. For me, it was a huge thing finding a community where I can not only find new people but find people based on common interests to have a easier start and not wasting time and effort in the wrong direction. Unfortunately, I havent found a English community so far, only a country based one. In the end, every chatroom can be a good place to start. A dating app can also be a good starting point, if it is not the goal to find ONS but friends. I think, it is important, that the service focused on communication and exchange and not on meeting other ones.

Regarding extra tools: It seems to work a bit. Sometimes the unfold setting seems not to work. I will try it. It is a nice workaround.

I was a bit surprised that not many mentioned it since I think the page is not usable without these features. Maybe many uses apps on their phone, where the unbluring is part of the app. But I think, to make the page usable by browser, to add the feature again is the way to go. If I remember, it is already planed so all fine in the end. And since every server change takes effort and quality insurance, I totally understand to wait a lil bit after migrating a server.

Every time I see a post like that, the next thing is me checking if our communities are still their. 😅

But of course it makes totally sense to clean up a lil bit from time to time. After some bans and some leavers, it’s good to know that we don’t have communities without reason and mods. 👍

It is not the topic which community. Brutal content fits here well brutality is multifaceted like many other topics. The point we are cautious about right now is a server and not a community thing (new, growing, rules…). But of course not everyone likes everything just because they appreciate facets of brutality. One more reason why I’m glad that the scoring system does exist, but isn’t overly prominent. If I could wish for something, it would be diversity. Not the posts that get 100 likes because they echo the mainstream of the internet. ;)

A nightmare for some, something very exciting for others. The nipples are insanely sensitive and just tapping carpenter’s nails through this sensitive area, no matter how gently, can only cause excruciating pain. On the other hand, there is an increase for everything, right? Maybe through the nipples next time? :D

LOL. Thanks to auto correction.

Congrats to new place. And great way to party it. 🎉🎉🎉

She is ☺️ cute.

… but hot. I like her skin color and her smile very much.

Thanks for everything the admin(s) do to make this page possible. It’s not just a corner of the internet where people talk about pornography and #nsfw things. It’s much more than that.

An approach,

• for open source,
• for the community,
• for an open and liberal communication
• a role model how to deal with different opinions on (sometimes quite challenging topics and borders).

I’ve just discovered first hand what it means to make the first contribution as a mod (nothing! compared to what others are doing here). And I can’t even fathom the effort it means for those who make all this possible here in the first place. In fact, everyone should be grateful and do their part (support the community, donate, post and comment) which can be done to take the burden off admins.

https://imgur.com is the place to be for me but it prohibits #nsfw content unfortunatelly. I havend found any meaningful alternative where #nsfw content is still allowed. Hopefully, someone else will have a good answer here.

basic community approach

I think that lemmy is basically a place where people who have the same interests come together. These commonalities are organized through communities. This ensures that anyone who wants to contribute something to the topic can join them. **But at the same time, and more importantly for me, it also means I can stay away from a topic if I don’t like the topic. **

My derivation from it

The platform with a focus on #nsfw is a place where basically everyone can organize their topics in communities. It’s an open, liberal place, a place of freedom of expression. Everyone can communicate their views.

But, and this is a very important but for me!: The platform and the operators have a social responsibility. They face this by setting rules according to which certain content is not desired on the platform. For me, the most important principle is legality. I as a person, and probably others feel the same way, do not want to be on a platform that publishes or tolerates prohibited / illegal / borderline content. Banning these topics is an effective technique, although it may require community involvement to bring such content to attention. I would therefore find it wrong to say that the operator alone is responsible.

Don’t ban at any cost

The thin red line between bans to keep the community “clean” and to prevent freedom of expression is a challenge in many topics. For me personally, there are several “lines” that I use as a guide. The absolute line is what is illegal by law. Based on this, I sort out what is not of interest to me because I don’t want to deal with the topic / I don’t like it. At the same time, I think that the community concept creates a solution in which people with any #nsfw interests can get together without it affecting me in any way. No matter how kinky one finds it, another may find finding like-minded people in a niche particularly helpful.

personal opinion

So I don’t think that legal content should be banned in principle. But I think it’s useful to give the user the ability to personally filter out unwanted content. (I really appreciate the Mastodon concept, which allows me to hide certain terms or tags in the settings, and I use it intensively.) So far, I’ve managed with lemmy in such a way that my feed only shows the subscribed communities. That’s why I haven’t needed the function to hide entire communities yet. But I assume that the day will come and as a user I don’t think it’s a bad thing at all to actively take care of myself that I don’t see things that I personally don’t find beautiful. It’s my responsibility to do that and I think it’s the right thing to do.

no matter what #nsfw inclinations

I intentionally didn’t address #scat in writing the post itself beacuse it is less important to me than how we want to deal with content in general. Personally, I’m not a fan of scat, but that doesn’t mean I don’t feel concerned with the question. Because it could be that tomorrow there will be a vote on another #nsfw niche topic which I really love. That’s why I’m looking for a solution that restricts the lemmynsfw as little as possible and still ensures that it remains a place for everyone.

That is a very nice looking css for lemmy!

I tried to deselect undetermined because I thought, that if I just put in my languages that I can speak, I can have a kind of default on new created posts from one of my languages. That has not worked at all but I realized, that undetermined can be deselectetd but wont save in the settings. I think, their was a fix with the aim to prevend user misconfiguring anything in the language area. (best guess)

Rough education and long school days but the result is promising.