I’ve had a penile inversion surgery. Dilating for me was way to painful so I’m basically zero depth now. I considered getting the peritoneal pull-through. Navigating the healthcare system is exhausting and I got the sense it’d be almost a decade before I’d be approved for another surgery so I just kind of gave up and I’m way happier with what I have now than what I had before even if it’s not e everything it could have been. I’m not comfortable sharing any pictures of myself online, but I’ve seen enough references to know that vaginas can look very different. They come in all shapes and sizes and what I have between my legs would not be assumed to be some alien anatomy and would simply be recognized as the genitals of someone born with that kind of anatomy.