footfaults [none/use name]

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Cake day: July 27th, 2020

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  • I am glad someone else stated this. The first couple months of Hexbear I distinctly remember choosing to say nothing because it was very clear that at certain points that reasonable dissent was Not Allowed. It’s stupid that a forum can at the same instant be both simultaneously some of the highest stakes emotionally, while also the stakes are so low because it’s a fucking WEBSITE. At that moment the stakes were very high for me emotionally so I wanted to stay around and not feel hurt by being banned or my comments deleted, so I would choose to log out or shut the fuck up.

    That time passed and the last couple of years it has not felt like that. This week, that old feeling came back.


  • I agree with your sentiment but honestly I have low expectations for an actual cogent, meaningful, and well thought out argument being actually formed as to why low effort posting is bad and should be curtailed.

    If the most focused push to change the culture has been… <vaguely points at the smoke and rubble> … this, I don’t think there’s some set of alternative discussions that would have convinced anyone that were being saved for later. Because if that was the case why didn’t they use those instead of whatever the hell all this was?

    Like sorry sometimes you only get one shot at convincing someone to your point of view and this was the attempt. It’s over.


  • I fucking hated the discord that got formed after /r/chapotraphouse got banned.

    Partially because Discord sucks (chomsky-yes-honey ) but also there was some inscrutable drama constantly happening and I just didn’t have the time or patience to even try to figure out up from down, and then saw a mention that they built a discussion site so gave it a try.

    I don’t know why I’m still here, this last couple of days of drama at a site I look at daily has me wondering why the fuck I do anything at all. So fucking stupid to put any energy or emotions into a fucking website, and let it become this important to me


  • You know, honestly I had been hoping that a couple days of nothing being done would be in order. Where the old comms remained locked, and everyone just sat in their corners for a bit and maybe we just all let things pause for a while.

    I am incredibly disappointed to see some users that I saw make excellent points like REgon, usa_suxxx, among many others get temp bans.

    I also see that many bans are being handed out with the same comment copied and pasted, multiple times to many different people.

    I understand that moderating can be a slog and there’s so MUCH SHIT that has to be shoveled, but I can’t shake the feeling that it is being done with a little bit of glee. That each ban with the same pithy one liner just gives you a little burst of dopamine, each time that you do it.

    Which is sad. Truly.

    I never really appreciated your moderating style TC69, because you seemed to just take it as a given that everything had to be your way or the highway, and I’m disappointed to see you return.