Don’t say, “I can’t wait.” It’s OK to be excited for something but not to wish away all the moments between then and now. Each one is precious.

I picked that up a few years ago from a Buddhist book. It helped me with so many aspects of life.

Thanks for sharing your experience. It’s good to hear there wasn’t a lot going on because, honestly, coming here from Reddit feels a bit like participating in some sort of digital gentrification.

OP could get constipated by doing a bunch of opioids. Obviously not recommended.

You’re right. The fediverse is definitely in a better position to ward off the suck.

By now, we’ve all been around the internet long enough to know that good things never last. That’s really life: Everything’s impermanent. Lemmy will probably suck someday, as will much of the fediverse. But I’m grateful it’s good right now and for the foreseeable future.

I feel you completely. I spend most of my free time with my family, hiking or paddling, or reading books. It’s nice to have places online to burn some time, but I’d sooner give it up than be forced into some corporate playground. The past 15-20 years have shown that it just doesn’t work.

Awesome! This has been puzzling me. Thanks!

I really don’t know. I definitely recall Spez saying it’s safe. But it seems like we’d be wise to not trust a word he says.

Welcome! I’m super stoked to be here, too. And each day this community seems to grow stronger.

I agree that reddit’s future looks weak. The API change was horrible. Spez’s approach to the whole thing was even worse: condescending, disingenuous, and hostile.

And the more I think about it, the less I see any hope for reddit as a place I want to spend time. This isn’t just one bad episode. Once the company goes public, there’s going to be more shit like this. The site will slowly gut itself for perceived short-term gains, over and over again.

No thanks.

Haha! Makes total sense. I appreciate your precision.

My knowledge of plants is mostly limited to stuff in the New Jersey Pine Barrens because I hike and paddle there often and read about it just as much. So when I think of a sundew, I’m thinking of the one I know that lives there.

(The Pines also has a cactus – the prickly pear – but now I’m questioning whether it’s actually a cactus!)

Thanks so much. Next time I come across a cool plant that I can’t identify, I’ll post and tag you.

This is such an insightful and thoughtful post. It sums up exactly how I feel. I’m so over the negativity that I encountered daily on Reddit. Lemmy is a fresh start.

A few years ago, while searching for answers about how to live a better life, this simple and kinda sappy thought came to me. Maybe it seems obvious or sentimental, but I use it to guide my actions every day: Shape the world with love.

That’s how I’m trying to contribute to Lemmy. And it seems like most other users are, too.

Jeez. I’m sorry someone said that to you. Fucked up.

That’s really cool. Forgive me for not knowing proper plant language, but its arms resemble a sundew.

Thank you!

Agreed. Sometimes fiction reflects reality very well, in its own unique way. I used to be a journalist, and I recall some of my colleagues wondering whether they could do more good by moving to fiction and taking on larger issues in that medium.

Your last couple of sentences resonate deeply. I was active like a decade ago. I remained active mostly in one sub, but only occasionally.

Here, it feels like I have to do my part.

I feel you regarding all this. But I also have to ask: What’s the weirdest plant you own? Any carnivorous ones? (I love pitcher plants – don’t own any, but I seek them out in nature regularly.)

Well said. It’s something I’ve done often without realizing I was doing it. There’s something valuable in hearing the perspective or advice of what seem like real people and not a marketing campaign.

It does. For me, I think part of that is a sense of responsibility to help create what I want to be a part of. But people also just seem nicer here!

You nailed it: It feels like a movement. And movements, especially nascent ones, require buy-in and work from their members. I guess that explains why I feel obligated to participate more than I did at Reddit.

I’ve only been on Lemmy for a day, but it’s already clear no one is gonna build this out for us.