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Cake day: June 15th, 2026

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  • Another example of how critical it is to pay attention to language is this - “That went from, at the beginning of this year, an issue that never came up — people were totally happy with the amount they were spending — to all of a sudden, a huge issue”. He never says anything about prices going up or the lack of ROI these customers are seeing. It’s almost like he’s implying that nothing has changed so why are they complaining now? This is the same type of language that fools investors into believing the insane stories some of these companies spin.


  • Ok, great. I understand the position you’re in. It can get lonely being by yourself and can be a heavy weight. And just about everyone has been stung by rejection and it can hurt like hell. But it’s so important to temper your expectations until you can draw things out naturally. And even if this person does like you and would like to date you, you’re going to put a ton of pressure on them if you burst out and say “I love you” right away. And even if you’re in a group with them it should be easy to find a moment when just the 2 of you are together and start a conversation about something. Or open a door for them, or offer them something you’re eating. Be attentive but not overbearing. And then maybe see if they’re open to doing something just with you. See a movie, play a video game together, go to a museum … Just be cool. So instead of saying “I love you”, say, “I had a great time”. See what happens from there!