• @StopJoiningWars
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    212 hours ago

    Really fucking arrogant/egocentric to assume every guy out there is trying to flirt with you, no?

    Like, I’m gay, if someone said that to me though I’d be tempted to report them to HR for a hostile workplace interaction.

    They’re literally passing judgement on you by appearance (what else was disclosed in that scenario? literally nothing), and that’s not ok.

    • Zloubida
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      8 hours ago

      If you’re a woman and have to be near an unknown man, it’s safe to assume the worst. It’s a sane reaction.

      • @StopJoiningWars
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        14 hours ago

        They’re your coworker for Christ’s sake. Why assume the worst?

        • @CascadianGiraffe@lemmy.world
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          126 minutes ago

          As a guy, I have never had a job where I didn’t witness sexual harassment in one from or another.

          Just yesterday a coworker mentioned we had a new hire starting and was wondering if they were going to be hot or not. Poor girl hasn’t even had her first day and the idiots are already lining up to hit on her, even without knowing ANYTHING except she is female.

          It’s pretty safe to assume the worst.

          • @StopJoiningWars
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            119 minutes ago

            It is not “pretty safe to assume the worst”, it’s an HR nightmare waiting to happen. Stop giving bad advice.

        • Zloubida
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          14 hours ago

          Because male coworkers harassing female coworkers is common.

          • @StopJoiningWars
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            120 minutes ago

            But in this case the harassment is from the female coworker. And you seem totally fine with that. Gotta love double standards.