• PackagedGoth@lemmy.worldOP
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      22 days ago

      Sadly I don’t. I’ve only really had a chance to do stuff once but other than that, I don’t really get a chance which is pretty annoying

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        22 days ago

        Yea outside of a small number of experiences with a like minded friend who is no longer available I haven’t had much of a chance to explore that side of myself either

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          22 days ago

          It’s annoying because even after finding someone who is into it, there are always weirdos or people who u feel u can’t trust too much with u being that vulnerable

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            22 days ago

            Yea. I mean I’m a dude so slightly less of a concern for me compared to yourself but still concerning.

            I live in a fairly isolated town so it’s not impossible for me to get to events but a little difficult and expensive. Other events and stuff to spend money on always come up. I did go to a Torture Garden event once, but that was over 10 years ago 😱

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              22 days ago

              I live in the Uk and Kink events aren’t really a thing here, at least I haven’t seen any about or advertised etc.

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                22 days ago

                I’m in England, the north specifically. Kink events do happen in the UK but they’re rare and mostly in London or Birmingham.