I’m gonna be honest, I’m not asking for a friend, I’m asking for myself. Our daughter (24) married this man (65) in September. She herself stated money was the main reason, and he knows it but it doesn’t bother him. Both my husband & I are having a very hard time getting used to the idea.
Honestly, she’s choosing (I’m assuming) to not have to work, get a free house to live in, and be set for the rest of her life after this dude dies. Those are the 2 biggest stressors in anyone’s life right now. I’d be a liar if I hadn’t thought about pursuing a cougar in my younger years for the same reasons. If she’s fine with it, and he’s not abusive, let her do her thing. Sure, it’s frowned upon, and she’ll be called a gold digger, etc. but that’s her cross to bear, and she seems fine with it.