The guy with my name was a minor league pitcher for years. I was happy when one day I googled and noticed he got called up to the bigs. He only lasted like a month, but hey, my dude made it. I also was proud of him lol. I would have bought his jersey if he stuck around.
Honestly, she’s choosing (I’m assuming) to not have to work, get a free house to live in, and be set for the rest of her life after this dude dies. Those are the 2 biggest stressors in anyone’s life right now. I’d be a liar if I hadn’t thought about pursuing a cougar in my younger years for the same reasons. If she’s fine with it, and he’s not abusive, let her do her thing. Sure, it’s frowned upon, and she’ll be called a gold digger, etc. but that’s her cross to bear, and she seems fine with it.