• MNByChoice@midwest.social
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    19 hours ago

    OP needs a new therapist using a different therapy style. Keep trying folks. (I have my favorites, but so does everyone.)

      • WraithGear@lemmy.world
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        17 hours ago

        if op had the bandwidth to treat going to therapy like dating, they probably would not be a virgin, and would possibly not need therapy

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            14 hours ago

            that was not the implication, the implication is that if they were healthy enough to seek social fulfillment by “dating” multiple therapists, then they would have been healthy enough that they would have found social fulfillment by dating.

            not that sex is some magic panacea.

            i am pointing out an oxymoron

        • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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          14 hours ago

          sucks so much that finding good therapy is so hard, and way too much effort for for those who barely have the capacity to get one.