• ameancow@lemmy.world
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      8 hours ago

      Why is everyone vague-posting in here? Just say directly what bothers you about the comic.

        • ameancow@lemmy.world
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          4 hours ago

          As a species we tend to mask irrational feelings with stories our brain make up, connecting abstract social issues and ideas to make us feel like our irrational discomfort is somehow part of a bigger, more “rational” story, but it all leads back to something that makes us uncomfortable. The cure is sanitizing sunlight.

          And because Lemmy is packed with incel-adjacent minded young guys and require some pushback on their bad ideas, because people no longer experience social pressure as long as they can retreat to like-minded online spaces, so I rather people are open about what they think so we can challenge it, support it or offer alternatives depending what the actual feeling is.

          That’s why I care.

          Your turn.

        • JayDee@lemmy.sdf.org
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          Regardless of whether it’s an illusion - if it is an illusion, it’s a compelling one, to the point that you can’t be perfectly confident in it being illusory.

          You should, logically, at least try to carry out change by your own hands, because the alternative is to potentially squander whatever autonomy you may have.

          It’d be like standing at an unlocked door, but being so convinced it’s locked, that you don’t even give a good try at turning the knob.

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            18 hours ago

            How we perceive choice does affect behavior but it’s one of a myriad of things and how you perceive choice isn’t a choice either. Change occurs without requiring choice, even change by ones own hands. Nothing is squandered if it never existed. We will still behave and our behavior will cause changes, but it isn’t a choice how we behave. So any sexism, in the system of behavior we are all a part of, is a product, not a choice.

    • Wren@lemmy.today
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      1 day ago

      Yes. That’s why some people make different choices from people who are 99.99% biological matches who were raised in similar conditions.

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        18 hours ago

        Nobody lives the same existence so any differences, especially over time, are products of those differences. Even identical twins in the same home don’t experience the same existence and aren’t the same person and make different choices.