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    I mean she found him cute so he wasn’t actually ugly.

    I on the other hand get “oh, you looked better from far away.” You want ugly I can show you ugly! Lmao

    Edit: I’d “love” to gross you all out with my picture, but I value being at least somewhat anonymous so I don’t want to link a picture to my username lol

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          Actually sounds kimda hot to me. Just because you aren’t attracted to you doesn’t mean I won’t be. I guess the trick is finding someone you are also attracted to in return.

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            “much uglier, balding, short”

            “Sounds kinda hot”

            Why can’t people like you live near me!? lmao

            I should say that while I’m not exactly “picky” as in passing over people for superficial things, I also don’t want “just anyone.” So like sure, I could probably pick up a real mess of a person with all sorts of drama, but then I’d be with a mess of a person with all sorts of drama lol

            Edit: Should have said I’m not calling you a mess of a person, just speaking generally lol

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              Tbf, you also said “hairy,” which is a huge turn-on for some ladies. My SO is obsessed with hairy. I didn’t know that was a thing until her.

              Get confident. That’s what sold my girl on me. I walk, talk and otherwise behave confidently, even when I have no fu#$ing clue.

              Bonus points: my SO also points out when other girls check me out. I’m oblivious to that stuff, so that’s a nice boost.

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                The confidence thing helps some people, but I don’t think I have much success with that. I come off as very insecure on lemmy because I’m anonymous and can be open and honest about how I see myself, but when I’m out and about I’m walking with my chest high and when communicating I’m generally charming, always aiming to make someone laugh.

                For someone who hates a lot about myself, you wouldn’t know it at all if you met me in person lol

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          Ouch, balding, yes I get you fam. Also balding in my 23. If you talking about Herman in his youth, honestly he was good looking. So an uglier version of him sounds just average. I’m a very tall guy but that didn’t help me in relationship department so I can’t really judge by height.

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        Mix Peewee Hermans face with Danny devitos hair and height and then imagine that person is actually uglier than just that combo lol

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          I feel attacked. First of all, both of those guys are hot. Paul Rubens was always hot as fuck in my opinion. Seriously. He’s just my type. And Danny Devito is one of those guys that becomes hot as you get to know him a bit. Then, he becomes a complete fucking stud.

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          Hard to imagine, also I don’t think that would necessarily be bad-looking. Hard to judge without photographs, would like to ask for one if it’s fine

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            I don’t really know how to do that without it being visible for others, I don’t really want to link my face to my account.

            I know I’ve pretty much given up my general location in comments elsewhere, but I feel like I can be most honest when I have at least some form of anonymity lol