When a guy asks you to sit on his face, I’d usually hover as I don’t want to suffocate him or hurt his nose etc. but I’ve heard guys before say they don’t want u to hover. Is that true?

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    20 minutes ago

    You know when you grind against a pillow and it feels amazing? Just use my face instead. It’s like a pillow except it’s heated and it has a tongue that you can ask to go slower or faster or deeper or shallower.

    I guarantee any man that legitimately asks you to sit on his face is fully aware of what that entails. Don’t worry about the weight. They will let you know if they need off Mr bones wild ride.

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    If you tell a girl to sit on your face. It means you are a 9.9/10 on the horny scale and you want her to use your face like it was the only way she could get rid of an itch on her vagina.

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    7 hours ago

    Communicate with the individual you’re with.

  • pevrert@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 hours ago

    I think most men want you to pretend their skull/jaw was your favorite pillow or bedpost (depending on your taste) and grind against it like you were trying to get yourself off on an inanimate object, tbh

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    13 hours ago

    They want you to put pressure where it feels best. Do that. Use their face. Feel good and make it a thing

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    Probably up to the individual, but I definitely prefer she try to kill me with her pussy. I always tell my wife she can say I died happy, so go to town. We recently had a week in which she could free use my face whenever she wanted and it was magical.

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    2 days ago

    Something that’s easy to forget is how much stronger men are than women. Even your skinny twig man is going to be way stronger than the majority of women just given the amount of his testosterone in his system. When push comes to shove and he’s going to drown in that pussy or keep living, he’s going to yeet you off the mattress. If you manage to suffocate him with your crotch then that’s how he wanted to go

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      11 hours ago

      This message would have been much better if you talked about adrenal response instead of “man strong woman weak”

      Mothers lift cars off their kids in extreme circumstances, everyone is strong when they need to be.

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        27 minutes ago

        I’m one of the most left wing people you will find in any overton window.

        I still don’t think it’s unreasonable to say an average male has more physical strength than an average female. This is just biologically true. I’m not saying you can’t have strong women or weak men; nor did the commenter.

        Fight the battles that have value and improve equity for everyone. This isn’t one of them.

        EDIT: Before anyone picks up on my use of the term “biological”, I’d like to clarify I am a trans rights supporter. That is not the point at hand.

    • AnIndefiniteArticle@sh.itjust.works
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      18 hours ago

      Dangerous advice.

      I’ve been raped by a woman 80 lbs heavier than me.

      I always grew up smaller than my sister, and got a lot of concussions along the way.

      Women are fucking strong and violent and need to be aware of their strength.

      Size matters and isn’t always correlated with gender. Size and strength need to be considered independently from gender. For most comparisons between any two people, there are usually several better indicators than gender.

      Gender differences in strength exist at the tails of the distribution, but for average encounters gender is immaterial compared to several other traits including size and training.

    • shortcake@lemmynsfw.com
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      14 hours ago

      Men stronger than women ? You must be joking ?

      There was a man who was literally killed because a heavy woman sat on him, you cannot defy physics & biology

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    Fewer questions, more face-fucking please mistress. Grab my hair and grind your hips like you’re trying to start a fire. If I’m not concerned for my own safety it doesn’t count. Drown me.

  • lewddude@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    Also establish something he can do to let you know to get off. That way you have a clear signal too

  • Zombiebadguy @lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    Personally, I fucking love it when my wife smothers my face, and when she really gets into it, there’s nothing hotter. If I die, it would be with a smile on my face!

    I figure if he wanted you to hover, he would probably say hover on his face.

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    2 days ago

    You start with the hover. Then I pull you down until I’m in a comfortable position to lick your pussy

  • K.K.@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    Speaking for myself, I absolutely don’t want the hover. Get up close and personal, I’ll let you know if I need there to be a change.

    It’s definitely something to discuss with your partner beforehand, as boring as that answer is lol. Some people definitely will want the hover!

  • Mickey7@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    How does it all work if the guy wears glasses? Depending on the positioning his glasses might be rubbing your asshole

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      2 days ago

      Who leaves their glasses on (every time)? Even the worst-sighted dude on the planet should be able to tell what the blurry bits are, or use touch to confirm…