No, it’s not. At this point, it’s entirely clear that 1/3rd of the country is terminally stupid, 1/3rd is too lazy to do anything about the terminally stupid, and 1/3rd too busy screaming at each other over purity tests to do anything to convince the lazy that they shouldn’t default-allow the stupid to lead everything.
I’ve reached a point where, frankly, I don’t care anymore. This year is going to be about me, and frankly, screw whatever other people want or think.
I’ve done some minor things: I carry now, got a motorcycle license and a bike, am spending rather a lot more time and energy around getting laid.
Long term, though, I cannot see a way that the US is going to survive in it’s current state, and I also cannot forsee me ending up as involved in things as I have been becasue it’s absolutely crystal clear that unless we magic up a way to solve stupid and lazy, this is going to be the default going forward.
And, just for clarity here: the ‘default’ does include Team Blue winning the occasional election, because it’s basically just being told the Stage 4 cancer that’s going to kill you is in remission, but probably only for 2 or 4 years and at random intervals. At some point the cancer WILL kill you, and the occasional moment of pauses in the destruction are not saving anyone or anything.
And yes, I know this is absolutely coming from a position of privilege: I may be gay, but I’m also white, cis, and can absolutely pass as straight, and while not being rich, I have a house, a reasonable nest egg, and the absolute unqualified glorious privilege of not needing to work 40 hour weeks to pay my bills.
But, well, I’ve paid for that privilege over the last decade of working 60 hour weeks, and I cannot see any reason why I shouldn’t exploit the shit out of it and stop making some corpo shareholder richer while I sit there stressed and upset over shit that does not matter. (I worked in IT: none of it matters, at all.)
I’ve written a couple of replies, deleted them, wrote some more, and deleted those and then debated replying at all but finally came up with what I think I want to say that doesn’t come across as being an absolute raging asshole.
TBH, that kind of response is a good portion of why I’m tired of trying to engage. I’m perfectly willing to use my privilege in any way that’s going to actually make a meaningful difference, but frankly nobody can provide a useful thing. It’s just neoliberal snark that I’m just plain not doing enough and really should be doing better, without any useful guidance into what I should be doing than the typical usual crap that comes out of neolibs.
It’s always just ‘go vote!’ (which I’ve done, and will continue to do), or ‘call your senator!’ (which I have and is utterly worthless), or maybe ‘don’t buy things on this day because that’ll show them!’ (it won’t), or even the always popular ‘go protest!’. Which again, I have, but showing up with 25 other people is not going to be something anyone in power cares about, at all.
If anyone has an actually useful impactful thing to do, I’m all ears, but frankly, I’ve yet to hear anything that strikes me as likely to actually either effect change, preserve something, or otherwise improve anyone’s life more than me getting focused on myself, friends, and family.
No no, what you’ve said is fair. We all have different levels of privilege and this is a discussion always worth exploring.
Mostly I’m just low-key simmering terrified.
I think the big thing to do is that if you don’t live in a subservient state government, make sure they’re rebelling against the feds and protecting human rights.
I think that’s all we can do for now, except to take things one day, one hour at a time.
Whatever else you may or may not do in the future, I for one hope that you give yourself permission to take care of YOU for a little bit here.:-) (put that another way: how could you be any good to anyone else if you did not?)
Perhaps slap a timer on it: a week, a month, whatever you need to grieve for what we’ve all lost. Then you’ll be more able to adapt to whatever is about to come.
Do whatever you can to get to a friendly location.
Post-US, I expect to see the new country of California to become a world superpower, but it will not be an easy path. I expect it to be a major military target, from both foreign and domestic adversaries.
I feel like you get me: this has now become our new normal. Future years will be compared to this one. 2026 will be 2025 part 2 rather than 2020 part 7.
No, it’s not. At this point, it’s entirely clear that 1/3rd of the country is terminally stupid, 1/3rd is too lazy to do anything about the terminally stupid, and 1/3rd too busy screaming at each other over purity tests to do anything to convince the lazy that they shouldn’t default-allow the stupid to lead everything.
I’ve reached a point where, frankly, I don’t care anymore. This year is going to be about me, and frankly, screw whatever other people want or think.
I’ve done some minor things: I carry now, got a motorcycle license and a bike, am spending rather a lot more time and energy around getting laid.
Long term, though, I cannot see a way that the US is going to survive in it’s current state, and I also cannot forsee me ending up as involved in things as I have been becasue it’s absolutely crystal clear that unless we magic up a way to solve stupid and lazy, this is going to be the default going forward.
And, just for clarity here: the ‘default’ does include Team Blue winning the occasional election, because it’s basically just being told the Stage 4 cancer that’s going to kill you is in remission, but probably only for 2 or 4 years and at random intervals. At some point the cancer WILL kill you, and the occasional moment of pauses in the destruction are not saving anyone or anything.
And yes, I know this is absolutely coming from a position of privilege: I may be gay, but I’m also white, cis, and can absolutely pass as straight, and while not being rich, I have a house, a reasonable nest egg, and the absolute unqualified glorious privilege of not needing to work 40 hour weeks to pay my bills.
But, well, I’ve paid for that privilege over the last decade of working 60 hour weeks, and I cannot see any reason why I shouldn’t exploit the shit out of it and stop making some corpo shareholder richer while I sit there stressed and upset over shit that does not matter. (I worked in IT: none of it matters, at all.)
I’m trans, intersex, and can’t really pass definitively as either binary sex. I’m also quite disabled.
It’s a coin flip if I live to see the nation that comes after the United States of America. I’m fighting like hell for my life.
But I’m glad you can blend in.
I’ve written a couple of replies, deleted them, wrote some more, and deleted those and then debated replying at all but finally came up with what I think I want to say that doesn’t come across as being an absolute raging asshole.
TBH, that kind of response is a good portion of why I’m tired of trying to engage. I’m perfectly willing to use my privilege in any way that’s going to actually make a meaningful difference, but frankly nobody can provide a useful thing. It’s just neoliberal snark that I’m just plain not doing enough and really should be doing better, without any useful guidance into what I should be doing than the typical usual crap that comes out of neolibs.
It’s always just ‘go vote!’ (which I’ve done, and will continue to do), or ‘call your senator!’ (which I have and is utterly worthless), or maybe ‘don’t buy things on this day because that’ll show them!’ (it won’t), or even the always popular ‘go protest!’. Which again, I have, but showing up with 25 other people is not going to be something anyone in power cares about, at all.
If anyone has an actually useful impactful thing to do, I’m all ears, but frankly, I’ve yet to hear anything that strikes me as likely to actually either effect change, preserve something, or otherwise improve anyone’s life more than me getting focused on myself, friends, and family.
No no, what you’ve said is fair. We all have different levels of privilege and this is a discussion always worth exploring.
Mostly I’m just low-key simmering terrified.
I think the big thing to do is that if you don’t live in a subservient state government, make sure they’re rebelling against the feds and protecting human rights.
I think that’s all we can do for now, except to take things one day, one hour at a time.
Whatever else you may or may not do in the future, I for one hope that you give yourself permission to take care of YOU for a little bit here.:-) (put that another way: how could you be any good to anyone else if you did not?)
Perhaps slap a timer on it: a week, a month, whatever you need to grieve for what we’ve all lost. Then you’ll be more able to adapt to whatever is about to come.
Do whatever you can to get to a friendly location.
Post-US, I expect to see the new country of California to become a world superpower, but it will not be an easy path. I expect it to be a major military target, from both foreign and domestic adversaries.
I feel like you get me: this has now become our new normal. Future years will be compared to this one. 2026 will be 2025 part 2 rather than 2020 part 7.
Put another way, America is now “great” again!?